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Why Individuals Really like saying the good in EFT

1 of the most often asked queries I obtain is “When can I add positive statements during an EFT session?” Whether or not the individual asking is an EFT Practitioner or someone utilizing Emotional Freedom Technique for their personal use, it is clear that people get pleasure from and want to state and use good statements when using EFT.


We all know EFT operates on the negative. Especially during EFT we have to:

1. Acknowledge the concern/habit/challenge/condition

2. Verbally and mentally recall it whilst tapping and for that reason ‘tune into’ the emotional disturbance or charge

three. Do EFT until the concern/habit/challenge/condition is neutralized

Then if EFT works on the negative and, when effectively done, addresses and eliminates the condition or challenge… why even introduce the good? Is there even a advantage to do so if ‘the classic way’ is so successful?

I think, a lot more than ever, folks still naturally want to say and state the good although performing EFT. And there is tremendous advantage in carrying out so.

Here are 3 primary factors why people have the want to say the good (I call them “Empowerment Statements”) and why it is so advantageous.

1. People Are Fed Up With Being Unfavorable

Have you ever listened in on people’s conversations? In most dialogues, people are talking about what they do not want, what they don’t like and what they deem as unsatisfying or incorrect in their life and in the planet. It is a learned habit to speak about the unfavorable and undesirable.

But it isn’t just the speak among girlfriends enjoying their lattes at a street caf. Numerous of my past patients, present customers and pals that have gone to conventional talk therapy have told me more than the years, “I am sick of talking about my problems/the past/ my mother, etc.” “I really feel wiped out following hearing or speaking about the issues I still have” “I am so tired of beating pillows!” (Whether they are speaking about actual or preverbal pillows!)

Those wanting to evolve into a new awareness and a greater level of consciousness are prepared to feel, speak and be a lot more positive and self-empowered. Far more and a lot more men and women want to move into an empowered state rather than live from a victimized, helpless state. And we all know for this to occur, our really language have to modify to facilitate this shift from the negative and dis-empowered to good, empowered speech.

2. The Secret is Out: Positive is In

Over the final couple of decades teachers such as Abraham-Hicks, Joseph Murphy, Louise Hay and Deepak Chopra teach how important it is to alter the way we consider if we want to attract and develop what we want in our lives.

“If you change the way you appear at items, the issues you look at alter.” – Wayne Dyer

Of course, this is not ground breaking news! Luminaries, saints and sages from all cultures and spiritualities have beckoned us to heed our thoughts and words. These seers have known that thoughts produce a feeling, a feeling creates a vibration and that vibration (regardless of whether unfavorable or good) is getting responded to by the globe around us and return to us in like type.

In the current film The Secret, speakers were gathered from about the globe to attest to this phenomenon. Mike Dooley, author of Infinite Possibilities, was a single who was interviewed in the movie. I think Dooley very best summed up the essence of this highly effective message by his statement, “Thoughts develop issues. Select the excellent ones.”

So, it’s cool to be good. Truth be told, it often has been. Not only that, it is incredibly effective. And much more people are catching on to the realization they are co-creators in their planet. And to be a deliberate co-creator of what we desire in our lives implies that who we are, what we do and what we say are all in alignment.

three. Feeling Good is Potent!

Several practitioners will report that clients will tell them throughout EFT sessions:

“Can you repeat what you mentioned?”

“Wow! That was highly effective to hear you say ________”

“That felt Really good to say ____________”

They are frequently commenting particularly on the impact of positive statements.

Phrases such as ‘I’m deciding’ ‘I give myself permission’ ‘I am prepared to let this go’ ‘I am selecting to’ ‘I’m permitting myself to,’ really feel great to the speaker. It is as if a heavy fog is lifting and we are saying with our clients, “Appear, the clouds are breaking in the sky! Here comes the sun!” The person feels hope, optimism and a sense of possibility.

And feelings drive our behavior and good feelings can be the catalyst for great modify in any location that we are in search of to improve.

No wonder people adore saying the good in EFT and how crucial it is to incorporate Empowerment Statements in EFT sessions!